“Strange about parents. We have such easy access to them and such daunting problems of communication.James Merrill
“Proust’s Law (are you listening?) is twofold: (a) What least thing our self-love longs for most Others instinctively withhold; (b) Only when time has slain desire Is his wish granted to a smiling ghost Neither harmed nor warmed, now, by the fire. James Merrill